Sex: Unplanned

Sex: Unplanned
Question: What do you think about it?

I believe unplanned sex is more fun than planned ones (sometimes)
Sexual intercourses like "quickies" that happen anywhere anytime can give you the best memories. Ones that you can look back to.
There are moments you look into the eyes of your spouse and you just think "remember that time..."
Compared to planned sex with candles, roses and the likes. Being "overtaken" by hunger (desire) for your partner can be sexy and fun sometimes. There's more to this topic..Watch out!!!
But then this is just one opinion.

So the question for today:
1. What's your opinion about unplanned sex?

SEX & TOYS

SEX & TOYS
Question:  How fun is having sex with toys?

I think it could be really fetish and too kinky to include toys when having sex. But some couples believe it spices up the sexual relationship.
Toys could include dildos, cuffs, playing dress ups, fantasy dressing, etc...
Dildos are used mostly by women on themselves while the man watches, cuffs could be used by both partners, especially when they both like power, playing dress ups can be for both partners also while fantasy dressing is mostly used these days. It involves acting out your fantasy, bringing your fantasy to real life.
There are more to discuss on this topic, this is just the beginning, whatch out for the next post on Sex & Toys.
Remember, this is just one person's opinion

So the question for today:
1. How fun is having sex with toys?
2. What other toys are there aside from those above?
3. What is the advantage of these toys?

Shoutout @itsyourboy, my inspiration for this post...

SEX: BEST POSITION

SEX: BEST POSITION
Question: What's the best position for sex?

There are so many positions that can be considered as the "best" it depends on the couple.

There are best positions for
-orgasms,
-less pain,
-comfort,
-pregnancy and what have you.

I believe the best position is the "missionary" style.
Its one of the best for orgasms and pregnancy...its also isn't as stressful.

But, this is just one opinion, you can help out.

So the question for today and the next 6days:
1. What do you think is the best sex position? For what reason and how?

CHEATING: ON YOUR WIFE

CHEATING: ON YOUR WIFE
Question: Why?

You'd notice this week has a lot of "cheat" topics, I'm just pretty much inspired.
But back to the topic at hand, I don't know why men cheat on their wives. It'd probably be among the reasons why men cheat in general.

A comment on previous blog "why men cheat" implied that its because of sex, that men cheat.
But if you're married, shouldn't you consider your wife and kids? The disease you might get from the people you sleep with?, the shame your kids would face if its publicised?

Men out there you should understand that when you cheat on your wife, you're not the only one involved, its a package deal, especially in this small world of ours.
But as I always say, this is just one person's opinion.

So the questions for today:
1. Why cheat on your wife?
2. What advice can you give a man/woman in a cheating crisis (where one has cheated, is cheating, or is considering cheating)

WHY MEN CHEAT (1)

WHY MEN CHEAT (1)
Question: Why do men cheat?

I really don't have an answer to this question, but I can say, the reason men cheat is because they are probably made that way. (Remember I said "probably")

But seriously, this is an issue that really requires a lot of opinions, mostly from the men themselves (and obviously women who believe they have some reasons too).

There are a couple of reasons which I think could be the reason why men cheat some of them include:
-He can never be satisfied (once a cheat always a cheat)
-He wants to show off (pressure from friends)
-.........

Oh, Come on!!! Who am I kidding? I have got only those two logical reasons so far... People!!! Help out!!

So the question for today:
1. Why do men cheat?

STEPPING INSIDE THE KITCHEN (1)

STEPPING INSIDE THE KITCHEN (1)
Question: Whose sole duty is it to step inside the kitchen?

Some say it's the sole duty of the woman to cook while the guy is to eat the food and (or) bring money for the food.

In this situation the man is not to step foot inside the kitchen for any reason (not even to pack his plate), he his served and buttered up by the woman.

But, me personally, I believe it shouldn't be like that, the guy should not just leave the woman in the kitchen, he should assist her when he can.

In fact, I believe the two of you being in the kitchen can even spice up ur sexual relationship. (You should try it!!!)
But then, this is just one opinion, what is yours?

So the question for today:
1 Whose sole duty is it, to step inside the kitchen? The man, the woman or both?

OKAY FOR MEN, ADULTERY FOR WOMEN (1)

OKAY FOR MEN, ADULTERY FOR WOMEN (1)
Question: Why is it okay for men to cheat and it is considered adultery if a woman does?

These days a man can be caught cheating and he is forgiven with popular sayings like:
-He is a guy
-Men cheat, get used to it
-It happens
-Just forgive him

But when a woman does? Its like the world that was formerly round is now square.
She becomes an adulterer, it becomes a scandalous topic, she is known to be "dirty", not forgiven and can even lead to a nasty divorce

This is just the beginning of this issue, there's more, but remember as I always say, this is just one person's opinion, you could always give yours (you know how-comment)

So the question for today:
1. Why is it okay for men to cheat and it is considered adultery for a woman?

BEST AGE FOR MARRIAGE

BEST AGE FOR MARRIAGE: Women
Question: What is the best age for women to get married?

People say that for ladies 23-26 is the best age to settle down.
Well not that it's not true but I think it depends on so many things like:
-Finding the right person
-Having the right facilities to handle a marriage
-Recognising the fact that your going be with the  person for the next 60years of your life

But still i believe that if you are ready (considering the 3 points above) then anytime is good. You just have to remember that as a lady your biological clock is ticking way faster than that of a man.
But as I always say, this is just one person's opinion. What's yours?

so the question for today:
1. What is the advisable age for a woman to get married?

FIGHTING IN FRONT OF YOUR KIDS

FIGHTING IN FRONT OF YOUR KIDS
Question: Should you fight in front of your kids?

It's not really cool to fight in front of your kids especially if they are of the age where they grasp stuffs quickly and can imitate you. They could go out and start repeating what they saw you do.

But some parents say they are teaching their kids what to do and what not to do by using their partner as an example. (I really don't know how much this has worked for such people)

Please and please parents out there, you should not on any occasion, lesson or no lesson, fight in front of your kids especially if they are:
-fragile emotionally
-of imitating age
-having anger management issues

You need to remember that you are the role model that they are looking up to.

But as I always say, this is just one person's opinion. You could always give yours.
So the question for today:
1. Should your kids see you fight? Especially if its "mom" and "dad"


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WHAT TO DO (1)

WHAT TO DO: WHEN YOUR BEST FRIEND CROSSES THE LINE
Question: What do you do when your best friend crosses the line with "I love you"?

These days, its mostly the opposite sex that hang out together and call themselves "best friends" or "close friends".
Your best friend is the one you turn to, the one you do all your gossip with, the one you ask questions you can't ask your spouse and many more.

Don't get me wrong, having a best friend is like so amazing!!!

But what do you do when your best friend falls for you?

Some say its cool to have your best friend as a spouse(this is true) but there are times you need to talk to someone else about things you cannot discuss with your spouse or you need a third opinion about something.(This is where having a "Bestie" comes in)

So imagine Christine/ Ben having a bestie (Jack/ Jane)  and a spouse (Logan/ Susan). Logan/ Susan was formerly your best friend before you indulged yourself in the *It's cool to have a bestie as a spouse* advice. Things come up where you need a third opinion and then you approach Jack/ Jane to help you. Jack/ Jane starts to fall for you as you both now share the same opinions, views and start to see a lot of similarities between each other.

Finally, Jack/ Jane tells you any of these 3:
*I LOVE YOU
*I'M IN LOVE WITH YOU
*I'VE FALLEN FOR YOU
Do you leave your former bestie Logan/ Susan (your present spouse) for your new bestie Jack/ Jane?

So the question for today:
1. What should Christine/ Ben do? Leave old bestie for new? or what?


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DATING SOMEONE YOU CAN'T MARRY

DATING SOMEONE YOU CAN'T MARRY
Question: Why date someone you can't marry?

I believe this is an easy question with an easy answer! You date someone you can't marry because you want to have some fun! But then there are other reasons too (like love) or you didn't realize early enough that you couldn't marry the person.
Imagine dating for 3 or 4years and then you realize you cannot actually marry the person for reasons that have to deal with: family, inability to get pregnant, financial status, etc is that considered a waste of time?
It should not necessarily be called a waste of time but a time where you use to learn about different things in life. But if this were to be you? How would you break the news?

So the questions for today:
1. Why would you date someone you can't marry?
2. How would you handle the scenario?

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WHY GUYS DON'T CALL

WHY GUYS DON'T CALL
Question: Why is it that guys don't call?

The way men are made (or rather created), their emotions are quite hidden and hard to reach or crack. Unlike women who can be very emotional or obvious with their emotions.
Talking to a guy (especially if he is far away) almost re-assures the girl of where she stands. Also women are known to talk a lot. Calling the guy comes in naturally (its makes the girl feel closer to you)

On the other hand, guys can talk alright, just not all the time. They hardly call but when they decide to, it would make up for the previous times they didn't call.
But it totally depends on the type of guy he is (introvert or extrovert) and the type of relationship you have.

For instance a male introvert dating a female extrovert office mate. You see each other everyday from like 8am to 6pm and you still expect hm to call you everyday from 9pm to 11pm? Really? Every day? Talking two hours stretch everyday at the same time.

Am not saying it can't happen, but the timing might change, the number of hours might change too, but hardly would you find a guy that would do this. Don't get me wrong, am not saying he is not out there but he is just a rare type. But as I always say this is just one person's opinion.

So the question for today:
1. Why is it that guys don't call or should I say hardly call?


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UNDERWEAR: COOL GIFT FOR VALENTINE?

UNDERWEAR: COOL GIFT FOR VALENTINE
Question: Is underwear a cool gift for Vals?

Some girls find it insulting for a guy to buy them undies especially if the guy doesn't know the size nor has seen the girl naked or half naked.

On the guys part he probably doesn't see the big deal there. A gift is a gift

While some guys would buy it because it is expected that the girl would model it for him later.

The girl, in this instance, might not have an issue with it, this is probably because she has been intimate with the guy, plans to be, or doesn't have a problem with modelling for the guy afterall she probably "loves" him.

The gift could be okay and it could not be, it totally depends on the type of relationship you guys have together. As I always say, this is just one person's opinion, you could always state yours by commenting.

So the question for today:
1. Is underwear a cool gift to buy for valentine?

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WHICH WILL IT BE?

WHICH WILL IT BE?
Question: If you were asked to pick only two (2) out of love, money and health which will it be?

MONEY, LOVE OR HEALTH?
As the saying goes "Health is Wealth". So if I were to pick one first, it will be health. Without your health in a good state you can't enjoy money or love.

The major "cracker" comes between love and money (for some). No offense meant, but these days one needs money to live comfortably while you also need to feel love and be loved to be happy.

You can say love will come when you have money, but that isn't true love. Also, one can say if you have love, you don't need money because all the wealth you want is in the love you get and also (don't forget) health is wealth. (With this paragraph, you'd think you can kill two birds with one stone, i.e you can have the three if you pick health and love) but as I always say this is just my opinion.

So the question for today:
1. If u were asked to pick only two from love, health and money which will it be?







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HAVING KIDS: BEFORE MARRIAGE, FIRST YEAR OR SECOND YEAR

HAVING KIDS: BEFORE MARRIAGE, FIRST YEAR OR SECOND YEAR

Question: When should the kids come in?

Personally, I wanted kids a year after marriage so I can have time to spend with my spouse and make out anywhere and anytime without thinking of the kids. End of first year going into second year then we can consider having a child. It’s like spending a year honeymoon.

But what if we don’t have the kids we're looking for after 3years or more? We’d start getting worried and thinking too much. This is why I’d say we could also decide to make a baby before marriage or within the first year of marriage. When I say "before marriage" it doesn’t necessarily mean to give birth, you could just be pregnant and not necessarily showing. In some states, it acts as proof of the man’s potency and the ladies ability to have a child.

This decision could also be made when making family planning decisions. You could calculate the time or age you want to start and stop having kids. For women to enjoy themselves, I’d advise they stop giving birth at age 35 latest but then this is just my own opinion and view. You could give yours and use it as a means to advice others out there

So the questions for today

1. When should you put “having a child” in your family planning list?

2. If it was you, when would you prefer to have your kids and when do you want to stop?

 
PS. These questions aren’t for women alone but for men also (when would you want your wife to)

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LEAVE OR KEEP THE JOB?

LEAVE OR KEEP THE JOB?

Question: If your husband tells you to leave your job for reasons that obviously appeal to you, will you leave the job?

There are different reasons as to why a man would tell his wife not to work, some of them include:

1 She is pregnant

2 You have another job for her

3 You opened a boutique or small business for her

4 She is sick

Other reasons could be

1 You feel like it

2 You don’t like her earning more than you (pride)

3 You are selfish

There are many other reasons why a man would do such, its now in the hands of the woman. If she agrees with the idea of leaving her job (for any of the reasons above) I guess she is free to do so.

But shouldn’t she return to her job (if its reason number one) after the baby is of age? Or if the new job is not convenient for her (reason number 3) or when she gets better (reason number 4)?

What do you advise a woman to do in this scenario?

She left her job for reason number 3 (small business or boutique) and the new business after 3 years goes down the drain(reasons-low funds, mismanagement, etc) and she isn’t able to get a new job. What should she do? Or rather should she have left the previous job? (By the way, the previous job was paying a really high amount)

So the questions for today:

1. What are your reasons for leaving your job aside from the ones above (as a wife or a husband)

2. What would you advise the woman to do in such a scenario?

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