HOUSEWIFE, CAREER WOMAN OR BOTH?

HOUSEWIFE, CAREER WOMAN OR BOTH?

Question: Which should it be?

These days, women want to be both (career and housewife). But some people still want to be house wives after going to school to get all the degrees in the world, no offense, but what is the use of all your degrees if you are going to be at home all through your life?

Career women too, some of you don't want to have kids (reasons best known to you) but would you want to remain old and alone with your job till you die? When you get to your grave are you taking all the money you made with you? Wouldn't you leave it for your family and freinds (which you should have)?

Understanding the two options, why not merge the 2 (career and housewife) there is time for everything in this world, but despite that fact, time waits for no one. 

So if you are out there thinking of what to do (especially if you're young) start planning your future now! Look at the pros and cons of both types of wives and understand how to handle the 2.

Oh and men (I haven't forgotten you) you shouldn't keep your wife in the house all the time (housewife) neither should you make her work too much (career woman) help her merge the two so you can live comfortably and happily.

So the question for today:
1. Which should it be? Housewife, Career Woman or Both? (please give your reasons if you can)

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AGE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN SPOUSES

AGE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN SPOUSES

Question: What is the acceptable age difference that should be between spouses?

People say they have a specific age range (difference) that they will share between their spouses.

Some say they'll prefer the man to be between 3 to 7years older while others say they'll prefer 1 to 3years.

It is believed that the higher the age difference, the better. Is this true?

What about someone that is younger? (The man is younger than the lady or they are age mates) Is it okay?

To me, I don't think it should matter, if the love is strong I believe age is but a number, and if the guy is matured its not an issue (these days maturity is not completely by age alone)....but as I always say, this is just one person's opinion. What is yours?

So the questions for today:

1. Is it okay to date or marry someone younger than you? And can you do it?

2. What is your own acceptable age range (difference) that should be between you and your spouse

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DURATION FOR RELATIONSHIP

DURATION FOR RELATIONSHIP

Question: What is the acceptable duration for a relationship before it leads to marriage?

There isn't particularly a duration in which a relationship should be. It depends on some things like resources at hand like money, education, etc. Relationships can go on for years before engagement or a wedding takes place. 

But today's post is mostly trying to find out "what is the acceptable time for a relationship to take place"? People use 5 to 9 years dating and might not end up getting married, some do. While some use just 2months and get married. This happens because they can understand each other either quickly, slowly or never. 

But if after a long dating relationship, it turns out that you can't be together, is that a waste of time? Considering the fact that there would have been other suitable suitors or ladies along the way that you would have ignored.

So the question for today: 

1. How long can you date someone before you think you should be engaged or married?

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DATING SOMEONE OF A DIFFERENT RELIGION

DATING SOMEONE OF A DIFFERENT RELIGION

Question: Can you date someone that is of a different religion?

To answer this question, one has to consider somethings. Dating someone of a different religion could be no big deal for some people. While for others it could be one.

If you love someone so much religion should not be a basis for you. But if you come from a family where it is a strong factor, then you obviously can not. On the other hand, if you believe (as an individual with  his or her own mind) that religion has no particular basis for your relationship then its good.

I have a friend who can not date someone of a different religion because of the future, when i say future, I mean the kids they will have. They kids might be confused about which religion they would want to follow. But this is just one persons view. What is yours?

So the question for today:

1. Can you date someone of a different religion?

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BEING SINGLE VS BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP

BEING SINGLE VS BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP
Question: Which is better?

Sometimes being single can be the best option and sometimes being in a relationship can be better. It depends on the circumstances around the individual.

For instance someone that has been heartbroken countless times would prefer to be single, while someone that has never known love, or found someone to love would want to be in a relationship.

Also, the commitment issues, fights, stress, time, money, and all of that, that comes with being in a relationship can make someone prefer to be single.
While the love, the feeling of being with someone that understands you, having someone to talk to, to share your burden with, to lift you when you are down, to care about you and all of that, could make someone prefer to be in a relationship.

This is just my opinion, yours could be known too.

So the question for today:
1. Which is better between being single vs being in a relationship and what is/are your reason(s)?

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DATING SOMEONE YOU'VE NEVER MET

DATING SOMEONE YOU'VE NEVER MET
Question: Can you date someone you've never met?

When I say someone you've never met, I mean in person. You might have seen pictures, but not seen the person in flesh. Can you date such a person?

People "fall in love" so many times via chatting using so many chat rooms. Is it safe to date someone that might not be real? There are so many people out there that can do crazy things isn't it risky to date someone you have never met before?

There might be sparks in the chatting room, or phone calls and all, but does that give enough reason why you would date?

All of these are just my opinion, you can always give yours by commenting.

So the question for today:
1. Can you date someone you have not met before?

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TOP 5 STYLES FOR BREAK UP

TOP 5 STYLES FOR BREAK UP

Question: What are your top 5 styles for breaking up?

Well, am back with a new topic today: styles for break up. Considering the reasons for break up, as it is in the previous post, top 5 reasons for break up, there are different approaches for handling a break up with your spouse.

Top 5 and popular lines are:

1. It"s not you, it"s me

2. This is just not working out anymore

3. I need some space and time

4. It's over (mostly used in hard times, like when caught cheating)

5. I'm sorry but...

Now, there are so many other lines and styles that can be used, it particularly depends on the reason for breaking up in the first place. Let's take, for instance, this scenario, what would be the best way to handle the situation?

Kimberly and Logan have been dating for 2years and 5months, the 6th month, Logan proposes to Kimberly and she accepts, the 11th month (5 months of engagement), Isabella, a friend of Kimberly, comes with the news that she is pregnant for Logan (A one-night stand). What is the best approach or line to use in this scenario?

So the questions for today:

1. What are your own top 3 or 5 styles for breaking up?

2. What is the best approach or line to use in the scenario?

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TOP 5 REASONS FOR BREAK UP

TOP 5 REASONS FOR BREAK UP
Question: What are your top 5 reasons for breaking up with your spouse?

Well, people there are so many reasons for breaking up with your spouse. Today's post, being the last till the next seven days, is majorly about the top five reasons why someone would decide to break up with his or her partner. My opinion?

Well, top five from the male perspective:
1. She is not giving you "some"
2. She is cheating on you
3. She asks for too much money (which you do not have)
4. Distance
5. You don't love her any more (probably never did)

Top 5 for female:
1. He wants sex (probably too early)
2. He is cheating on you
3. He is not consistent with his lies (I would have said he lies, but most guys lie, the problem is being consistent with the lies)
4. He is too stingy
5. He is very immature

There are other reasons for break up from both perspectives, (I do not want to list them all) can you help out?
So the question for today:
1. What are your top 5 reasons for breaking up with your spouse? Male & Female views.

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DATING YOUR BEST FRIEND'S EX

DATING YOUR BEST FRIEND'S EX

Question: Is it okay to date your best friend's ex?

I cannot really give a specific "yes" or "no" answer for this question.

But I can say it depends on some certain things for instance: how they broke up (if it was because of you) and also the kind of friendship between the two best friends (if they already have some laid down rules about their friendship)

But if this is not so, well, I don’t think it is really cool to date your best friends ex, especially if the break up is recent, if it is over so many years then its cool (I think). So what’s your opinion? Is it cool to date your best friend s ex?

The questions for today: 

1. Can you date your best friends ex? 

2. If your best friend wants to date your ex, would you allow it? 

Shout out to my girl @temit_f she was the inspiration for this post

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SEX WITH EX: GOOD, BAD OR OKAY?

SEX WITH EX: GOOD, BAD OR OKAY?

Question? Is it cool to have sex with your ex?

From my perspective, I believe having sex with your ex is like going back to your vomit. Why would you have sex with your ex? Are you desperate for sex? There are other people out there that you can do it with. Even though your ex is good on bed, it gives no reason why you should do so. 

Let's have this scenario: You have a week before your marriage, hanging out with your ex, you "mistakenly" have sex with him or her and he or she likes it a lot and does not want to let go, what would you do and would you invite him or her to your wedding (as previously planned)?

I know there are times when mistakes happen but should you in the first place hangout with your ex (especially if you have someone else you are dating) in a place where there is the possibility you could be "engaged" with each other?

So the questions for today people, what is your opinion?

1. Should you have sex with your ex? 

2. Given the scenario above would you still invite the person for your wedding?

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AFTER BREAK UP: FRIENDS OR FOES?

AFTER BREAK UP: FRIENDS OR FOES?

Question: After breaking up with your spouse, should you stay friends or foes?

How to answer this question? Well, I believe it is hard to stay friends with someone you must have loved so much. But then this situation actually depends on how you guys broke up and who did the break up too. 

Most people would say they can stay friends immediately after break up but it's sometimes hard. At least one of the two (boy or girl) would not want to stay friends. I think the only way they could stay friends is if they have both moved on: to date other people (if the break up was almost a mutual decision) or if they accept their loss or gain (depends on the after effect of the break up).

So what is your opinion? What's the best answer to this question? Should couples, who have separated or broken up, remain friends or stay away from each other?

The question for today:

1. Should couples who have separated or broken up remain friends or stay away from each other?

2. You and your ex..are you friends or foes? 

PS. Please use realistic/ real-life situations to answer the questions. Thanks.

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WHO SHOULD ASK WHO OUT?

WHO SHOULD ASK WHO OUT?

Question? Must the guy always ask the girl out?

Most people are of the view (ladies mostly) that a guy must ask the girl out first and not the girl asking the guy out as it is considered "un-girly" for the girl.

But let's be frank here, if you have been crushing on the guy for a really long time and even giving the guy signs that you like him and he still doesn't ask you out (or even talk to you) what should you do? Considering the fact that it might be very hard to forget the guy? With the way things are this days, it is that thing we cannot have, that we want the most. So even if the guy isn't looking your way at all, shouldn't you, as a girl, ask him? At least hear what he'll say, is it not better to know what happened than to be thinking "what if i had asked him?"
Personally I am of the view that anyone can ask anyone out. if he or she says "no" at least you know the answer and in the future you can make reference to it.

What do you think? Should the girl ask the guy out or wait (till who knows when) for the guy to notice the small signs you've been giving?

So the questions for today:
1. Who should ask who out?
2. If you are crushing on a guy should you wait for him or ask him?

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SEX: BEFORE OR AFTER MARRIAGE?

SEX: BEFORE OR AFTER MARRIAGE?
Question? Should you have sex before or after marriage?

Obviously, from the religious perspective, the answer to this question is after. The human body is holy and it should be kept that way until after the union between a man and a woman has taken place in matrimony.
BUT from the realistic-modern day-perspective, it is almost advisable to have sex before your marriage. Why? Well, sex is for procreation and pleasure (I believe) while marriage is a permanent union that you can not graduate from (except now where people suspend and expel themselves by separation and divorce) so if you are going to be with someone for the rest of your life lets say 50 to 70years and he or she can not please you or assist you in procreation what would you do considering the fact that married people ought to be faithful (stick to one partner for better or worse)?

So the questions for today:
1. Should you have sex before or after marriage?
2. If your spouse can not please you in your marriage bed what should you do?
3. If your spouse can not assist in procreation what is the way out?

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IS IT DOUBLE DATING?

IS IT DOUBLE DATING?
Question? If your spouse is leaving the country for like 6 years before you see him or her again and during those years you see other people is it double dating?

I think it is double dating. What do you think? I believe you should end the 6years relationship instead of deceiving yourselves.
My friend asked me, would a relationship work? if you would not see each other for 6 years. You know what i said? I said yes it could, but only if the love and trust is there. Don't forget communication too. Speaking about love. The love has to be like as if you guys are best of friends, like gossip buddies, you tell each other every single detail not the love where you cant do without touching each other, if this is the type of love you have, then its very unlikely for your relationship to work. Why? Well if you guys cant do without touching each other, and are far away, you are bound to seek someone else on a more personal and closer level, someone who would touch you to satisfaction. But if its the best friends kinda love....well...you should be able to handle it (i know this can be hard) but with talking and great imagination from both minds, you should make it, also don't forget the use of technology/internet/skyping/video calling and the likes.

What do you think? If it were you, what will your stand be? And what will you do? (remember there are 2 questions:
1. If your spouse is leaving the country for like 6 years before you see him or her again and during those years you see other people is it double dating?
2. Would a relationship work if you guys are 6years apart from each other in terms of distance?

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