SEX: WORST POSITION

SEX: WORST POSITION
Question: What is the worst sex position?

This is almost the same as the topic of last week, except this is the worst not best.
Worst sex position? This depends on the type of person you are. To someone else, 69 would be the worst while to another its the best.
It depends on how far your sexual level is i.e. fetish, kinky, etc
When one is involved in sex, ones comfort and satisfaction level is a yard stick for knowing which is worst or best.
So if you want to know what your worst is, think of the type of sexual person you are, then think of how comfortable you were then finally, rate the satisfaction you got.
This is only one opinion, what's yours?

So the question for today:
1. What is your worst sex position and why?

FAKING AN ORGASM

 FAKING AN ORGASM
Question: How do you know?

Sometimes not everybody involved in the act of sex is satisfied. Either the guy is not satisfied or the lady isn't but its mostly the ladies.
Hardly would u find a guy that's isn't satisfied when he's done with sex (as far as he cums). This is why its mostly the ladies that fake orgasms (Considering the fact that you can hardly tell when the lady cums unlike the guy)
Guys out there, sometimes you wonder why there are break ups, fights, frustrations in relationship when everything seems right, have you tried satisfying your woman? Like really satisfying her? You should (Remember not just sexually).
If you can't satisfy your woman and she fakes (because she loves you too much or doesn't want to hurt your ego) or cheats on you, do not be surprised.
This is just one opinion, and there's more where all of that came from.

Today's question:
1. How do you know & prevent your spouse from faking an orgasm?

Sex: Unplanned

Sex: Unplanned
Question: What do you think about it?

I believe unplanned sex is more fun than planned ones (sometimes)
Sexual intercourses like "quickies" that happen anywhere anytime can give you the best memories. Ones that you can look back to.
There are moments you look into the eyes of your spouse and you just think "remember that time..."
Compared to planned sex with candles, roses and the likes. Being "overtaken" by hunger (desire) for your partner can be sexy and fun sometimes. There's more to this topic..Watch out!!!
But then this is just one opinion.

So the question for today:
1. What's your opinion about unplanned sex?

SEX & TOYS

SEX & TOYS
Question:  How fun is having sex with toys?

I think it could be really fetish and too kinky to include toys when having sex. But some couples believe it spices up the sexual relationship.
Toys could include dildos, cuffs, playing dress ups, fantasy dressing, etc...
Dildos are used mostly by women on themselves while the man watches, cuffs could be used by both partners, especially when they both like power, playing dress ups can be for both partners also while fantasy dressing is mostly used these days. It involves acting out your fantasy, bringing your fantasy to real life.
There are more to discuss on this topic, this is just the beginning, whatch out for the next post on Sex & Toys.
Remember, this is just one person's opinion

So the question for today:
1. How fun is having sex with toys?
2. What other toys are there aside from those above?
3. What is the advantage of these toys?

Shoutout @itsyourboy, my inspiration for this post...

SEX: BEST POSITION

SEX: BEST POSITION
Question: What's the best position for sex?

There are so many positions that can be considered as the "best" it depends on the couple.

There are best positions for
-orgasms,
-less pain,
-comfort,
-pregnancy and what have you.

I believe the best position is the "missionary" style.
Its one of the best for orgasms and pregnancy...its also isn't as stressful.

But, this is just one opinion, you can help out.

So the question for today and the next 6days:
1. What do you think is the best sex position? For what reason and how?

CHEATING: ON YOUR WIFE

CHEATING: ON YOUR WIFE
Question: Why?

You'd notice this week has a lot of "cheat" topics, I'm just pretty much inspired.
But back to the topic at hand, I don't know why men cheat on their wives. It'd probably be among the reasons why men cheat in general.

A comment on previous blog "why men cheat" implied that its because of sex, that men cheat.
But if you're married, shouldn't you consider your wife and kids? The disease you might get from the people you sleep with?, the shame your kids would face if its publicised?

Men out there you should understand that when you cheat on your wife, you're not the only one involved, its a package deal, especially in this small world of ours.
But as I always say, this is just one person's opinion.

So the questions for today:
1. Why cheat on your wife?
2. What advice can you give a man/woman in a cheating crisis (where one has cheated, is cheating, or is considering cheating)

WHY MEN CHEAT (1)

WHY MEN CHEAT (1)
Question: Why do men cheat?

I really don't have an answer to this question, but I can say, the reason men cheat is because they are probably made that way. (Remember I said "probably")

But seriously, this is an issue that really requires a lot of opinions, mostly from the men themselves (and obviously women who believe they have some reasons too).

There are a couple of reasons which I think could be the reason why men cheat some of them include:
-He can never be satisfied (once a cheat always a cheat)
-He wants to show off (pressure from friends)
-.........

Oh, Come on!!! Who am I kidding? I have got only those two logical reasons so far... People!!! Help out!!

So the question for today:
1. Why do men cheat?

STEPPING INSIDE THE KITCHEN (1)

STEPPING INSIDE THE KITCHEN (1)
Question: Whose sole duty is it to step inside the kitchen?

Some say it's the sole duty of the woman to cook while the guy is to eat the food and (or) bring money for the food.

In this situation the man is not to step foot inside the kitchen for any reason (not even to pack his plate), he his served and buttered up by the woman.

But, me personally, I believe it shouldn't be like that, the guy should not just leave the woman in the kitchen, he should assist her when he can.

In fact, I believe the two of you being in the kitchen can even spice up ur sexual relationship. (You should try it!!!)
But then, this is just one opinion, what is yours?

So the question for today:
1 Whose sole duty is it, to step inside the kitchen? The man, the woman or both?

OKAY FOR MEN, ADULTERY FOR WOMEN (1)

OKAY FOR MEN, ADULTERY FOR WOMEN (1)
Question: Why is it okay for men to cheat and it is considered adultery if a woman does?

These days a man can be caught cheating and he is forgiven with popular sayings like:
-He is a guy
-Men cheat, get used to it
-It happens
-Just forgive him

But when a woman does? Its like the world that was formerly round is now square.
She becomes an adulterer, it becomes a scandalous topic, she is known to be "dirty", not forgiven and can even lead to a nasty divorce

This is just the beginning of this issue, there's more, but remember as I always say, this is just one person's opinion, you could always give yours (you know how-comment)

So the question for today:
1. Why is it okay for men to cheat and it is considered adultery for a woman?

BEST AGE FOR MARRIAGE

BEST AGE FOR MARRIAGE: Women
Question: What is the best age for women to get married?

People say that for ladies 23-26 is the best age to settle down.
Well not that it's not true but I think it depends on so many things like:
-Finding the right person
-Having the right facilities to handle a marriage
-Recognising the fact that your going be with the  person for the next 60years of your life

But still i believe that if you are ready (considering the 3 points above) then anytime is good. You just have to remember that as a lady your biological clock is ticking way faster than that of a man.
But as I always say, this is just one person's opinion. What's yours?

so the question for today:
1. What is the advisable age for a woman to get married?

FIGHTING IN FRONT OF YOUR KIDS

FIGHTING IN FRONT OF YOUR KIDS
Question: Should you fight in front of your kids?

It's not really cool to fight in front of your kids especially if they are of the age where they grasp stuffs quickly and can imitate you. They could go out and start repeating what they saw you do.

But some parents say they are teaching their kids what to do and what not to do by using their partner as an example. (I really don't know how much this has worked for such people)

Please and please parents out there, you should not on any occasion, lesson or no lesson, fight in front of your kids especially if they are:
-fragile emotionally
-of imitating age
-having anger management issues

You need to remember that you are the role model that they are looking up to.

But as I always say, this is just one person's opinion. You could always give yours.
So the question for today:
1. Should your kids see you fight? Especially if its "mom" and "dad"


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WHAT TO DO (1)

WHAT TO DO: WHEN YOUR BEST FRIEND CROSSES THE LINE
Question: What do you do when your best friend crosses the line with "I love you"?

These days, its mostly the opposite sex that hang out together and call themselves "best friends" or "close friends".
Your best friend is the one you turn to, the one you do all your gossip with, the one you ask questions you can't ask your spouse and many more.

Don't get me wrong, having a best friend is like so amazing!!!

But what do you do when your best friend falls for you?

Some say its cool to have your best friend as a spouse(this is true) but there are times you need to talk to someone else about things you cannot discuss with your spouse or you need a third opinion about something.(This is where having a "Bestie" comes in)

So imagine Christine/ Ben having a bestie (Jack/ Jane)  and a spouse (Logan/ Susan). Logan/ Susan was formerly your best friend before you indulged yourself in the *It's cool to have a bestie as a spouse* advice. Things come up where you need a third opinion and then you approach Jack/ Jane to help you. Jack/ Jane starts to fall for you as you both now share the same opinions, views and start to see a lot of similarities between each other.

Finally, Jack/ Jane tells you any of these 3:
*I LOVE YOU
*I'M IN LOVE WITH YOU
*I'VE FALLEN FOR YOU
Do you leave your former bestie Logan/ Susan (your present spouse) for your new bestie Jack/ Jane?

So the question for today:
1. What should Christine/ Ben do? Leave old bestie for new? or what?


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DATING SOMEONE YOU CAN'T MARRY

DATING SOMEONE YOU CAN'T MARRY
Question: Why date someone you can't marry?

I believe this is an easy question with an easy answer! You date someone you can't marry because you want to have some fun! But then there are other reasons too (like love) or you didn't realize early enough that you couldn't marry the person.
Imagine dating for 3 or 4years and then you realize you cannot actually marry the person for reasons that have to deal with: family, inability to get pregnant, financial status, etc is that considered a waste of time?
It should not necessarily be called a waste of time but a time where you use to learn about different things in life. But if this were to be you? How would you break the news?

So the questions for today:
1. Why would you date someone you can't marry?
2. How would you handle the scenario?

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WHY GUYS DON'T CALL

WHY GUYS DON'T CALL
Question: Why is it that guys don't call?

The way men are made (or rather created), their emotions are quite hidden and hard to reach or crack. Unlike women who can be very emotional or obvious with their emotions.
Talking to a guy (especially if he is far away) almost re-assures the girl of where she stands. Also women are known to talk a lot. Calling the guy comes in naturally (its makes the girl feel closer to you)

On the other hand, guys can talk alright, just not all the time. They hardly call but when they decide to, it would make up for the previous times they didn't call.
But it totally depends on the type of guy he is (introvert or extrovert) and the type of relationship you have.

For instance a male introvert dating a female extrovert office mate. You see each other everyday from like 8am to 6pm and you still expect hm to call you everyday from 9pm to 11pm? Really? Every day? Talking two hours stretch everyday at the same time.

Am not saying it can't happen, but the timing might change, the number of hours might change too, but hardly would you find a guy that would do this. Don't get me wrong, am not saying he is not out there but he is just a rare type. But as I always say this is just one person's opinion.

So the question for today:
1. Why is it that guys don't call or should I say hardly call?


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UNDERWEAR: COOL GIFT FOR VALENTINE?

UNDERWEAR: COOL GIFT FOR VALENTINE
Question: Is underwear a cool gift for Vals?

Some girls find it insulting for a guy to buy them undies especially if the guy doesn't know the size nor has seen the girl naked or half naked.

On the guys part he probably doesn't see the big deal there. A gift is a gift

While some guys would buy it because it is expected that the girl would model it for him later.

The girl, in this instance, might not have an issue with it, this is probably because she has been intimate with the guy, plans to be, or doesn't have a problem with modelling for the guy afterall she probably "loves" him.

The gift could be okay and it could not be, it totally depends on the type of relationship you guys have together. As I always say, this is just one person's opinion, you could always state yours by commenting.

So the question for today:
1. Is underwear a cool gift to buy for valentine?

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WHICH WILL IT BE?

WHICH WILL IT BE?
Question: If you were asked to pick only two (2) out of love, money and health which will it be?

MONEY, LOVE OR HEALTH?
As the saying goes "Health is Wealth". So if I were to pick one first, it will be health. Without your health in a good state you can't enjoy money or love.

The major "cracker" comes between love and money (for some). No offense meant, but these days one needs money to live comfortably while you also need to feel love and be loved to be happy.

You can say love will come when you have money, but that isn't true love. Also, one can say if you have love, you don't need money because all the wealth you want is in the love you get and also (don't forget) health is wealth. (With this paragraph, you'd think you can kill two birds with one stone, i.e you can have the three if you pick health and love) but as I always say this is just my opinion.

So the question for today:
1. If u were asked to pick only two from love, health and money which will it be?







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HAVING KIDS: BEFORE MARRIAGE, FIRST YEAR OR SECOND YEAR

HAVING KIDS: BEFORE MARRIAGE, FIRST YEAR OR SECOND YEAR

Question: When should the kids come in?

Personally, I wanted kids a year after marriage so I can have time to spend with my spouse and make out anywhere and anytime without thinking of the kids. End of first year going into second year then we can consider having a child. It’s like spending a year honeymoon.

But what if we don’t have the kids we're looking for after 3years or more? We’d start getting worried and thinking too much. This is why I’d say we could also decide to make a baby before marriage or within the first year of marriage. When I say "before marriage" it doesn’t necessarily mean to give birth, you could just be pregnant and not necessarily showing. In some states, it acts as proof of the man’s potency and the ladies ability to have a child.

This decision could also be made when making family planning decisions. You could calculate the time or age you want to start and stop having kids. For women to enjoy themselves, I’d advise they stop giving birth at age 35 latest but then this is just my own opinion and view. You could give yours and use it as a means to advice others out there

So the questions for today

1. When should you put “having a child” in your family planning list?

2. If it was you, when would you prefer to have your kids and when do you want to stop?

 
PS. These questions aren’t for women alone but for men also (when would you want your wife to)

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LEAVE OR KEEP THE JOB?

LEAVE OR KEEP THE JOB?

Question: If your husband tells you to leave your job for reasons that obviously appeal to you, will you leave the job?

There are different reasons as to why a man would tell his wife not to work, some of them include:

1 She is pregnant

2 You have another job for her

3 You opened a boutique or small business for her

4 She is sick

Other reasons could be

1 You feel like it

2 You don’t like her earning more than you (pride)

3 You are selfish

There are many other reasons why a man would do such, its now in the hands of the woman. If she agrees with the idea of leaving her job (for any of the reasons above) I guess she is free to do so.

But shouldn’t she return to her job (if its reason number one) after the baby is of age? Or if the new job is not convenient for her (reason number 3) or when she gets better (reason number 4)?

What do you advise a woman to do in this scenario?

She left her job for reason number 3 (small business or boutique) and the new business after 3 years goes down the drain(reasons-low funds, mismanagement, etc) and she isn’t able to get a new job. What should she do? Or rather should she have left the previous job? (By the way, the previous job was paying a really high amount)

So the questions for today:

1. What are your reasons for leaving your job aside from the ones above (as a wife or a husband)

2. What would you advise the woman to do in such a scenario?

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HOUSEWIFE, CAREER WOMAN OR BOTH?

HOUSEWIFE, CAREER WOMAN OR BOTH?

Question: Which should it be?

These days, women want to be both (career and housewife). But some people still want to be house wives after going to school to get all the degrees in the world, no offense, but what is the use of all your degrees if you are going to be at home all through your life?

Career women too, some of you don't want to have kids (reasons best known to you) but would you want to remain old and alone with your job till you die? When you get to your grave are you taking all the money you made with you? Wouldn't you leave it for your family and freinds (which you should have)?

Understanding the two options, why not merge the 2 (career and housewife) there is time for everything in this world, but despite that fact, time waits for no one. 

So if you are out there thinking of what to do (especially if you're young) start planning your future now! Look at the pros and cons of both types of wives and understand how to handle the 2.

Oh and men (I haven't forgotten you) you shouldn't keep your wife in the house all the time (housewife) neither should you make her work too much (career woman) help her merge the two so you can live comfortably and happily.

So the question for today:
1. Which should it be? Housewife, Career Woman or Both? (please give your reasons if you can)

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AGE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN SPOUSES

AGE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN SPOUSES

Question: What is the acceptable age difference that should be between spouses?

People say they have a specific age range (difference) that they will share between their spouses.

Some say they'll prefer the man to be between 3 to 7years older while others say they'll prefer 1 to 3years.

It is believed that the higher the age difference, the better. Is this true?

What about someone that is younger? (The man is younger than the lady or they are age mates) Is it okay?

To me, I don't think it should matter, if the love is strong I believe age is but a number, and if the guy is matured its not an issue (these days maturity is not completely by age alone)....but as I always say, this is just one person's opinion. What is yours?

So the questions for today:

1. Is it okay to date or marry someone younger than you? And can you do it?

2. What is your own acceptable age range (difference) that should be between you and your spouse

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DURATION FOR RELATIONSHIP

DURATION FOR RELATIONSHIP

Question: What is the acceptable duration for a relationship before it leads to marriage?

There isn't particularly a duration in which a relationship should be. It depends on some things like resources at hand like money, education, etc. Relationships can go on for years before engagement or a wedding takes place. 

But today's post is mostly trying to find out "what is the acceptable time for a relationship to take place"? People use 5 to 9 years dating and might not end up getting married, some do. While some use just 2months and get married. This happens because they can understand each other either quickly, slowly or never. 

But if after a long dating relationship, it turns out that you can't be together, is that a waste of time? Considering the fact that there would have been other suitable suitors or ladies along the way that you would have ignored.

So the question for today: 

1. How long can you date someone before you think you should be engaged or married?

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DATING SOMEONE OF A DIFFERENT RELIGION

DATING SOMEONE OF A DIFFERENT RELIGION

Question: Can you date someone that is of a different religion?

To answer this question, one has to consider somethings. Dating someone of a different religion could be no big deal for some people. While for others it could be one.

If you love someone so much religion should not be a basis for you. But if you come from a family where it is a strong factor, then you obviously can not. On the other hand, if you believe (as an individual with  his or her own mind) that religion has no particular basis for your relationship then its good.

I have a friend who can not date someone of a different religion because of the future, when i say future, I mean the kids they will have. They kids might be confused about which religion they would want to follow. But this is just one persons view. What is yours?

So the question for today:

1. Can you date someone of a different religion?

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BEING SINGLE VS BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP

BEING SINGLE VS BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP
Question: Which is better?

Sometimes being single can be the best option and sometimes being in a relationship can be better. It depends on the circumstances around the individual.

For instance someone that has been heartbroken countless times would prefer to be single, while someone that has never known love, or found someone to love would want to be in a relationship.

Also, the commitment issues, fights, stress, time, money, and all of that, that comes with being in a relationship can make someone prefer to be single.
While the love, the feeling of being with someone that understands you, having someone to talk to, to share your burden with, to lift you when you are down, to care about you and all of that, could make someone prefer to be in a relationship.

This is just my opinion, yours could be known too.

So the question for today:
1. Which is better between being single vs being in a relationship and what is/are your reason(s)?

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DATING SOMEONE YOU'VE NEVER MET

DATING SOMEONE YOU'VE NEVER MET
Question: Can you date someone you've never met?

When I say someone you've never met, I mean in person. You might have seen pictures, but not seen the person in flesh. Can you date such a person?

People "fall in love" so many times via chatting using so many chat rooms. Is it safe to date someone that might not be real? There are so many people out there that can do crazy things isn't it risky to date someone you have never met before?

There might be sparks in the chatting room, or phone calls and all, but does that give enough reason why you would date?

All of these are just my opinion, you can always give yours by commenting.

So the question for today:
1. Can you date someone you have not met before?

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TOP 5 STYLES FOR BREAK UP

TOP 5 STYLES FOR BREAK UP

Question: What are your top 5 styles for breaking up?

Well, am back with a new topic today: styles for break up. Considering the reasons for break up, as it is in the previous post, top 5 reasons for break up, there are different approaches for handling a break up with your spouse.

Top 5 and popular lines are:

1. It"s not you, it"s me

2. This is just not working out anymore

3. I need some space and time

4. It's over (mostly used in hard times, like when caught cheating)

5. I'm sorry but...

Now, there are so many other lines and styles that can be used, it particularly depends on the reason for breaking up in the first place. Let's take, for instance, this scenario, what would be the best way to handle the situation?

Kimberly and Logan have been dating for 2years and 5months, the 6th month, Logan proposes to Kimberly and she accepts, the 11th month (5 months of engagement), Isabella, a friend of Kimberly, comes with the news that she is pregnant for Logan (A one-night stand). What is the best approach or line to use in this scenario?

So the questions for today:

1. What are your own top 3 or 5 styles for breaking up?

2. What is the best approach or line to use in the scenario?

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TOP 5 REASONS FOR BREAK UP

TOP 5 REASONS FOR BREAK UP
Question: What are your top 5 reasons for breaking up with your spouse?

Well, people there are so many reasons for breaking up with your spouse. Today's post, being the last till the next seven days, is majorly about the top five reasons why someone would decide to break up with his or her partner. My opinion?

Well, top five from the male perspective:
1. She is not giving you "some"
2. She is cheating on you
3. She asks for too much money (which you do not have)
4. Distance
5. You don't love her any more (probably never did)

Top 5 for female:
1. He wants sex (probably too early)
2. He is cheating on you
3. He is not consistent with his lies (I would have said he lies, but most guys lie, the problem is being consistent with the lies)
4. He is too stingy
5. He is very immature

There are other reasons for break up from both perspectives, (I do not want to list them all) can you help out?
So the question for today:
1. What are your top 5 reasons for breaking up with your spouse? Male & Female views.

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DATING YOUR BEST FRIEND'S EX

DATING YOUR BEST FRIEND'S EX

Question: Is it okay to date your best friend's ex?

I cannot really give a specific "yes" or "no" answer for this question.

But I can say it depends on some certain things for instance: how they broke up (if it was because of you) and also the kind of friendship between the two best friends (if they already have some laid down rules about their friendship)

But if this is not so, well, I don’t think it is really cool to date your best friends ex, especially if the break up is recent, if it is over so many years then its cool (I think). So what’s your opinion? Is it cool to date your best friend s ex?

The questions for today: 

1. Can you date your best friends ex? 

2. If your best friend wants to date your ex, would you allow it? 

Shout out to my girl @temit_f she was the inspiration for this post

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SEX WITH EX: GOOD, BAD OR OKAY?

SEX WITH EX: GOOD, BAD OR OKAY?

Question? Is it cool to have sex with your ex?

From my perspective, I believe having sex with your ex is like going back to your vomit. Why would you have sex with your ex? Are you desperate for sex? There are other people out there that you can do it with. Even though your ex is good on bed, it gives no reason why you should do so. 

Let's have this scenario: You have a week before your marriage, hanging out with your ex, you "mistakenly" have sex with him or her and he or she likes it a lot and does not want to let go, what would you do and would you invite him or her to your wedding (as previously planned)?

I know there are times when mistakes happen but should you in the first place hangout with your ex (especially if you have someone else you are dating) in a place where there is the possibility you could be "engaged" with each other?

So the questions for today people, what is your opinion?

1. Should you have sex with your ex? 

2. Given the scenario above would you still invite the person for your wedding?

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AFTER BREAK UP: FRIENDS OR FOES?

AFTER BREAK UP: FRIENDS OR FOES?

Question: After breaking up with your spouse, should you stay friends or foes?

How to answer this question? Well, I believe it is hard to stay friends with someone you must have loved so much. But then this situation actually depends on how you guys broke up and who did the break up too. 

Most people would say they can stay friends immediately after break up but it's sometimes hard. At least one of the two (boy or girl) would not want to stay friends. I think the only way they could stay friends is if they have both moved on: to date other people (if the break up was almost a mutual decision) or if they accept their loss or gain (depends on the after effect of the break up).

So what is your opinion? What's the best answer to this question? Should couples, who have separated or broken up, remain friends or stay away from each other?

The question for today:

1. Should couples who have separated or broken up remain friends or stay away from each other?

2. You and your ex..are you friends or foes? 

PS. Please use realistic/ real-life situations to answer the questions. Thanks.

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WHO SHOULD ASK WHO OUT?

WHO SHOULD ASK WHO OUT?

Question? Must the guy always ask the girl out?

Most people are of the view (ladies mostly) that a guy must ask the girl out first and not the girl asking the guy out as it is considered "un-girly" for the girl.

But let's be frank here, if you have been crushing on the guy for a really long time and even giving the guy signs that you like him and he still doesn't ask you out (or even talk to you) what should you do? Considering the fact that it might be very hard to forget the guy? With the way things are this days, it is that thing we cannot have, that we want the most. So even if the guy isn't looking your way at all, shouldn't you, as a girl, ask him? At least hear what he'll say, is it not better to know what happened than to be thinking "what if i had asked him?"
Personally I am of the view that anyone can ask anyone out. if he or she says "no" at least you know the answer and in the future you can make reference to it.

What do you think? Should the girl ask the guy out or wait (till who knows when) for the guy to notice the small signs you've been giving?

So the questions for today:
1. Who should ask who out?
2. If you are crushing on a guy should you wait for him or ask him?

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SEX: BEFORE OR AFTER MARRIAGE?

SEX: BEFORE OR AFTER MARRIAGE?
Question? Should you have sex before or after marriage?

Obviously, from the religious perspective, the answer to this question is after. The human body is holy and it should be kept that way until after the union between a man and a woman has taken place in matrimony.
BUT from the realistic-modern day-perspective, it is almost advisable to have sex before your marriage. Why? Well, sex is for procreation and pleasure (I believe) while marriage is a permanent union that you can not graduate from (except now where people suspend and expel themselves by separation and divorce) so if you are going to be with someone for the rest of your life lets say 50 to 70years and he or she can not please you or assist you in procreation what would you do considering the fact that married people ought to be faithful (stick to one partner for better or worse)?

So the questions for today:
1. Should you have sex before or after marriage?
2. If your spouse can not please you in your marriage bed what should you do?
3. If your spouse can not assist in procreation what is the way out?

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IS IT DOUBLE DATING?

IS IT DOUBLE DATING?
Question? If your spouse is leaving the country for like 6 years before you see him or her again and during those years you see other people is it double dating?

I think it is double dating. What do you think? I believe you should end the 6years relationship instead of deceiving yourselves.
My friend asked me, would a relationship work? if you would not see each other for 6 years. You know what i said? I said yes it could, but only if the love and trust is there. Don't forget communication too. Speaking about love. The love has to be like as if you guys are best of friends, like gossip buddies, you tell each other every single detail not the love where you cant do without touching each other, if this is the type of love you have, then its very unlikely for your relationship to work. Why? Well if you guys cant do without touching each other, and are far away, you are bound to seek someone else on a more personal and closer level, someone who would touch you to satisfaction. But if its the best friends kinda love....well...you should be able to handle it (i know this can be hard) but with talking and great imagination from both minds, you should make it, also don't forget the use of technology/internet/skyping/video calling and the likes.

What do you think? If it were you, what will your stand be? And what will you do? (remember there are 2 questions:
1. If your spouse is leaving the country for like 6 years before you see him or her again and during those years you see other people is it double dating?
2. Would a relationship work if you guys are 6years apart from each other in terms of distance?

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