SEX: BEFORE OR AFTER MARRIAGE?
Question? Should you have sex before or after marriage?
Obviously, from the religious perspective, the answer to this question is after. The human body is holy and it should be kept that way until after the union between a man and a woman has taken place in matrimony.
BUT from the realistic-modern day-perspective, it is almost advisable to have sex before your marriage. Why? Well, sex is for procreation and pleasure (I believe) while marriage is a permanent union that you can not graduate from (except now where people suspend and expel themselves by separation and divorce) so if you are going to be with someone for the rest of your life lets say 50 to 70years and he or she can not please you or assist you in procreation what would you do considering the fact that married people ought to be faithful (stick to one partner for better or worse)?
So the questions for today:
1. Should you have sex before or after marriage?
2. If your spouse can not please you in your marriage bed what should you do?
3. If your spouse can not assist in procreation what is the way out?
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Answer to Q1. I prefer sex before marriage. That way, you can know what's up.
ReplyDeleteYou should have Sex after marriage. You both discuss it and agree on a solution together(theres solution to every problem). Adoption or both agree otherwise. It's all about love and commitment to one another.
ReplyDeleteYou should have Sex after marriage. You both discuss it and agree on a solution together(theres solution to every problem). Adoption or both agree otherwise. It's all about love and commitment to one another.
ReplyDeleteI love ur blog
ReplyDelete@gbb what if there is no option for adopting? or we cant meet the requirements for adopting?
ReplyDeletei prefer sex before marriage at least maybe a week before the wedding.
@ anonymous, if you can't reach the requirements for adoption, then you can't take care of your own child if you have 1. Show love to other children. Cousins, nephews, nieces, neighbours, street kids, visit orphanage homes
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I once know of some1 who insisted the spouse must be pregnant before marriage. Yes, she got pregnant and they married. She lost the pregnancy later and was in the marriage for close to 10 years without a child. She left the guy, married some1 else and now has 2 kids. Don't know how far with the first husband who insisted on evidence first before marriage. If you obey God's words, He will sort things out for you.
ReplyDeleteI once know of some1 who insisted the spouse must be pregnant before marriage. Yes, she got pregnant and they married. She lost the pregnancy later and was in the marriage for close to 10 years without a child. She left the guy, married some1 else and now has 2 kids. Don't know how far with the first husband who insisted on evidence first before marriage. If you obey God's words, He will sort things out for you.
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