IS IT DOUBLE DATING?
Question? If your spouse is leaving the country for like 6 years before you see him or her again and during those years you see other people is it double dating?
I think it is double dating. What do you think? I believe you should end the 6years relationship instead of deceiving yourselves.
My friend asked me, would a relationship work? if you would not see each other for 6 years. You know what i said? I said yes it could, but only if the love and trust is there. Don't forget communication too. Speaking about love. The love has to be like as if you guys are best of friends, like gossip buddies, you tell each other every single detail not the love where you cant do without touching each other, if this is the type of love you have, then its very unlikely for your relationship to work. Why? Well if you guys cant do without touching each other, and are far away, you are bound to seek someone else on a more personal and closer level, someone who would touch you to satisfaction. But if its the best friends kinda love....well...you should be able to handle it (i know this can be hard) but with talking and great imagination from both minds, you should make it, also don't forget the use of technology/internet/skyping/video calling and the likes.
What do you think? If it were you, what will your stand be? And what will you do? (remember there are 2 questions:
1. If your spouse is leaving the country for like 6 years before you see
him or her again and during those years you see other people is it
double dating?
2. Would a relationship work if you guys are 6years apart from each other in terms of distance?
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First of all, I wanna say this is a nice blog. Well, I believe its double dating. It doesn't matter if ur spouse leaves for 10 or 20 years, so far u guys are stil dating,its double dating, if they want to see other people, they should kuku break up na..sooo the second question, it can work for some people o....but as for me lailai. There is a 1 month/2 month distance between my bf nd I and its not funny o. BTW, what would I be doing for six years with one person then I would now wait for 6 yrs again before I see him making 12yrs nd we neva fix wedding datem even if u fix date, mayb its until 6 years before the wedding will happen..God forbid. Goodluck to people doin it.
ReplyDelete@yemi ajayi realy? except if shez black? so ur saying its cool to double date only if shez black?
ReplyDelete6 years is a long time though, and I believe no one wants to be waiting around for that long. Yes it is double dating, regardless of color or shape involved lol. In the history of mankind I don't think two lovers have ever been apart for so long...even those who go to war get leave once in a while to come visit their spouses
ReplyDeleteIts double dating but if my spouse has to leave for a long time..we will probably set rules for double dating
ReplyDeleteTruth be told, it's double dating. I know someone who was away from her spouse for 4 years and kept communication but after the guy returned,he started dating other girls... he wasted 4 good years of the lady. that was wicked, I won't ask anyone to wait for a spouse you can't join immediately.
ReplyDeleteReally its no big deal if ur spouse or partner is away fr lyk 3-4 years cos if u guys truly have feelings and u are more like friends it would work..."n" communication plays a big role in this and you should also engage your self in productive things
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