HAVING KIDS: BEFORE MARRIAGE, FIRST YEAR OR SECOND YEAR

HAVING KIDS: BEFORE MARRIAGE, FIRST YEAR OR SECOND YEAR

Question: When should the kids come in?

Personally, I wanted kids a year after marriage so I can have time to spend with my spouse and make out anywhere and anytime without thinking of the kids. End of first year going into second year then we can consider having a child. It’s like spending a year honeymoon.

But what if we don’t have the kids we're looking for after 3years or more? We’d start getting worried and thinking too much. This is why I’d say we could also decide to make a baby before marriage or within the first year of marriage. When I say "before marriage" it doesn’t necessarily mean to give birth, you could just be pregnant and not necessarily showing. In some states, it acts as proof of the man’s potency and the ladies ability to have a child.

This decision could also be made when making family planning decisions. You could calculate the time or age you want to start and stop having kids. For women to enjoy themselves, I’d advise they stop giving birth at age 35 latest but then this is just my own opinion and view. You could give yours and use it as a means to advice others out there

So the questions for today

1. When should you put “having a child” in your family planning list?

2. If it was you, when would you prefer to have your kids and when do you want to stop?

 
PS. These questions aren’t for women alone but for men also (when would you want your wife to)

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